Posted by: candoministries | June 8, 2009

Sabbatical – Fruit, not Jam

I have taken a 9-month sabbatical from writing and have missed it terribly. I found myself needing to be filled before I could give. I know it sounds cliché, yet no words would come; no inspiration to offer comforting reminders of who we are and what can be accomplished when we rise to our true identity in Christ. My pen, so to speak, had no ink.

However, during this dry period in my life, I have been enjoying some gardening which is the inspiration for this article. I planted [actually Joe planted] 3 grape vines last spring [2008]. The vines arrived as dry roots and looked absolutely dead. I called the company for replacements before I even planted them because I was so sure they were dead. Not a sign of greenery anywhere on any vine! I was told that once they are planted and cared for, signs of life should appear. As of last week, the vines are not only thriving with lots of green leaves, but one of the vines has clusters of tiny grapes.

So what do my grape vines have to do with inspiration for this article? Almost everything! Until we are planted and cared for, our signs of LIFE tend to be hidden.

  • My sabbatical has consisted of a blessed weekend with two women of faith speaking truth over me; leading me by the hand during a time when I felt blind. [Acts 22] Thank you, Stephanie and Diane!
  • My sabbatical has allowed me special times with my daughters and young granddaughter, witnessing the beauty of His holiness in their lives.
  • My sabbatical allowed me to be ‘tended’ by my husband in very nurturing ways and I have enjoyed watching how my sons-by- marriage have cherished their wives and becoming the men that God intended.
  • My sabbatical has allowed me blessings beyond measure and I want to share from that bounty with you.

As I have lovingly nurtured my tiny vineyard, I have been inspired by the stories from John’s writings when Jesus taught His disciples as He walked through the vineyard on His way to Gethsemane. [John 15] As the Master Teacher, Jesus used different forms of teaching tools to demonstrate the importance of relying on God for our every need. I can see Him holding the branches tenderly as He shared that He is the vine and we are the branches. The branches are healthy and nourished as long as they are attached to the vine. I would not do anything to hurt the tender plants in my little vineyard because I am looking forward to the harvest, and so it is with God as the vineyard owner or farmer. His ultimate purpose in us as His children is in the harvest. And how do we accomplish His purpose? By abiding in Him. You see, a healthy branch automatically produces fruit. By staying connected to Christ [as the vine], we reflect Him. By reflecting Jesus, we replicate who He is and what He does. “Walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work.” [Colossians 1:10] Fruit equals good works for Him – helping someone else and bringing glory to God. We are only responsible for producing the fruit, as branches, not making it into jam. That is the work of the farmer!

Can you be a positive branch for God? You are every time you have a good attitude during adversity; every time you assist someone in need; every time you speak truth in a dark world.                                                                                                                           In closing, I challenge you to produce fruit in your own little vineyard…and that will feed your whole community – your circle of influence! Perhaps you would like to share some of your ‘fruit-producing’ techniques?

Posted by: candoministries | September 22, 2008

Prayer

My prayer life is not perfect. I will be the first to admit that. I do desire deeper and more intimate times with my Creator.

 

Yet, prayer is more to me than a one-time-a-day intense quietness. For me, prayer is an almost constant conversation with my Heavenly Daddy. I speak in whispers, sometimes cries and often with tones of ‘whys’. Joys and fears are shared with moments of concerns and lots of ‘help me’. For instance, when I am traveling and an ambulance passes, I pray for those who are waiting on them and for safe travel back and forth; for the situation requiring their care and the emergency personnel. I do get distracted, too. The radio can carry my thoughts in different directions than I intended, especially when listening to a speaker or the local and national news, but I also find that the words of some music seems to transport me into the throne room of God.

Prayer is not a dictated action, but an experience of transformation. Otherwise, it becomes a chore to be reckoned with and tends to be neglected. So, as you consider your prayer life, check out the new Prayer Page that is in the process of being developed as a resource for you in your prayer life. Eventually I will include some of the written prayers of strong voices from past and present days. I hope that you find this page to be inspirational and a source of growth in your prayer life.

Perhaps you have a favorite prayer that you would like to share. I invite you to bless others with your own blessings, or you may have a prayer request. Again, this page is being developed for you.

Posted by: candoministries | August 7, 2008

I am Tired…

Common words, ‘I am tired’. Perhaps because my sleep patterns have become so erratic, and the blame lies on the sudden ’surges of heat’ in the middle of the night! A dear friend calls them Power Surges! Otherwise I sleep like a baby…not! It really does not seem fair. Loss of sleep seems to start somewhere around pregnancy and deep sleep escapes you until your last child is married. Then you find yourself right in the middle of menopause. I truly have some questions for God! And, no doubt, He has the answers. J

Posted by: candoministries | June 28, 2008

Debt Support Groups

Concerns about the economy and America’s dependence on debt have increased the rise in the number of Debt Support Groups. [NBC’s Today Show 6/28/08]

The premise is that a group of people are privy to the past spending habits of each member and the amount of debt being carried from month to month. Private stuff!

 

I agree that we need to be mindful of ‘where’ our finances go and maintain control over it instead of it controlling us. I heard Dave Ramsey say, “Stop the bleed.” As a nurse, that made complete sense to me. Pressure must be applied to stop bleeding, so in order for The Stephens’ to bring our spending in line with our income, we needed to apply a ‘tourniquet’! [and fast!]

 

Building wealth was never a driving force in my life…not in choosing my career or my life-long mate. Rather they were both callings within my life! I felt very sure at the age of 15 that I was to prepare to become a nurse. At that time I did not know another nurse and had no idea of what to do or where to go, but God placed strategic people and opportunities in my life to provide guidance. I was confidant that if I approached life as a ministry, God would provide for my needs. [Psalms 128] It definitely was not about money. My first professional contract as a full-time Medical-Surgical RN at an area hospital included an annual income of $7500. [Whoo-Hoo! Not bad for 1973!]

And my life-long mate – well, let me just say that we are celebrating our thirty-fifth wedding anniversary this August! I began dating Joe during the last semester of my junior year in high school, so we literally grew up together. Our love of God, sports, water and laughter meshed us. Thankfully, God protected us as our four-and-a-half year relationship changed from best friends to marriage partners!

 

Back to Debt Support Groups: Perhaps some of you have participated in similar groups, whether through your church, your neighborhood or your friends. What are your thoughts?

Posted by: candoministries | June 24, 2008

Magic Eraser

 

I was asked to provide the Keynote Presentation for a Women’s Retreat last September.  Anxious to share what God wanted for this group, I spent much time in prayer. Scripture seemed to come to mind almost immediately and I penned thoughts and past experiences.

The morning of the retreat arrived and I decided to polish my toenails as a last ritual of dressing. Leaning over the tub, I polished each toe with precision. However, the hand that was holding the red polish was also leaning and was pouring out onto my ceramic tile floor. In horror I began to wipe at the polish with tissue paper but it was too late. It seemed to be saturating into the grout. I ran to the kitchen to see what type of cleanser I might have to clean the mess that I had made. I immediately saw a new magic eraser, still in the box. In time-warped speed, I raced back to the bathroom, moistened the pad and began scrubbing the area. When I lifted the Magic Eraser©, the spot was totally clean. In fact, it was so clean that I realized that I would need to clean the rest of the floor in order for the spot not to stand out. In a whisper I said, it is white as snow and the verse of Scripture came to mind: “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be white as snow.” {Isaiah 1:18}

What a picture I had witnessed! My sins were like this red nail polish on a clean surface – a mess that I had made. Now, I am white as snow because I had allowed Jesus to clean up my mess like this Magic Eraser©.  He gave me “beauty for ashes.” {Isaiah 61:3}

Yes, I did arrive on time to the Retreat and yes, I did share this experience with the ladies.

As you might imagine, I always think of Jesus when I see a Mr. Clean Magic Eraser©!

Posted by: candoministries | May 19, 2008

Welcome to Can Do Ministries

Thank you for visiting with me. If we could have a cup of coffee or tea and just chat for a while about areas that are important to you, I think you will find that we have more in common than not. I live in upstate SC, attend Washington Avenue Church, teach a New Believer’s class, am the Wife of one, Mother of two and Mother-in-law of two, grandmother of one, a nurse and more precisely a Parish Nurse, community health educator, teacher, public speaker, lover of God, believer of Jesus, and have personally experienced grace! Can Do Ministries was born out of one of those personal experiences in the Spring of 2005. After spending nine years as the program manager of the Abundant Living Program, one of the most amazing Parish Nurse models in the Southeast, according to the Duke Endowment, I felt as though I was to leave this job. I mourned this decision because this was my calling, not just a job.  Yet, in my daily misery, I knew that God was closing this door. I yielded in faith without knowing what the next steps were to be. Part of me was sure that this was simply a test and in yielding, God would provide the sacrificial lamb and I would be allowed to stay. I submitted my termination letter with the rediculously long 8-week notice with that very thought in mind. However, I realized there was no sacrificial lamb at the 6-week point and I must prepare my community of churches, nurses, lay health leaders and agencies for the transition of my leaving and the new manager that I was privileged to identify and recommend. So, with two weeks left, I contacted approximately 108 churches and 200 peers of my situation. Unable to answer the inevitable questions of What happened?, Where are you going?, and How can you leave when everything is going so well?, I packed my office and attempted to close one amazing chapter of my life. The following Monday felt strange. I had no schedule to follow, no appointments to keep and no deadlines to meet. I promised to spend the day in prayer and seeking. As the coffee brewed, I sat down in the familiar chair in the windowed alcove overlooking our pond that serves as my favorite space for meditation. Sitting on a small table was a book that I do not remember buying or ever seeing, Believing God by Beth Moore. Picking up the small paperback, I began to read the foreword. That was at 8 AM. I was still sitting in that chair at 4 PM, reading and weeping. God had placed in my hands a jewel of a gift. Speaking through a gifted writer with a heart of understanding, I felt the warmth of God wrapping me in a quilt of peace and mercy. I did not find any new answers in that book except that it was going to be alright and I would find my promised land – that perfect place that He has chosen for me. One of the five faith statements, “I can do all things through Christ,” from Philippians 4:13 stuck with me. Within in a couple of days I felt impressed to begin my third study of the Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren and invited a small country church to go on this journey with me. In a matter of weeks, I was journaling the section entitled, Shaped for Serving God. During this time I knew that God was calling me into a specific ministry particularly in encouragement for and with women. Can Do Ministries was born by claiming that “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” The goals of Can Do MInistries are to proclaim the joy of serving God, to realize our purpose and place of service, to encourage fellowship and to build relationships with each other. Each presentation from the Life is Like™ series has a Biblical foundation and offers humor and wisdom woven with love and acceptance in order to share truths that can be applied in everyday life. If God has spoken to you during the reading of this site, please feel free to contact me either with a response or a personal email. I look forward to chatting together!

 

 

 

Posted by: candoministries | May 6, 2008

Happy Mother’s Day!

Welcome to your new website.  It is super customizable and includes lessons with your blogging daughter. 

You “can do” it.  May many be blessed by your musings here.

Julie

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